The College Major That Predicted Nothing
Most families treat the college major like it's the whole plan. The data says otherwise — and after thirty years of interviews, so does my own experience. Here's what the numbers actually show, and what to watch for instead.
What I Tell Parents Who Say Their Kid "Has No Passion"
I hear this from parents constantly: "My kid just doesn't have a passion for anything." After thirty years of interviews, I can tell you that's almost never true. Here's what's usually happening instead.
Stop Answering "What Do You Want to Be." Answer This Instead.
Every fall, seniors sit down to write essays answering a question they can't actually answer yet. Here's the question I'd ask instead, based on thirty years of watching which candidates figure themselves out — and which ones don't.
The Students Who Looked Great on Paper — And Struggled Anyway
Every August, parents load their kids up with the toughest schedule they can build. After interviewing thousands of professionals, I can tell you the transcript isn't what predicts whether someone thrives at work. Here's what actually does.
Work Environment Fit Is Real — And Nobody Talks to Teenagers About It
Most career conversations focus on job titles and salaries. After interviewing thousands of professionals, I've learned those are often the least important factors in whether someone actually thrives.
The Self-Knowledge Gap: Why Career Planning Often Fails Before It Starts
Career assessments give teens a list of matching jobs. What they rarely give them is a working understanding of how they naturally operate. That gap is why so many college major decisions feel like guesses.
Your Kid Isn't Lazy — They're Uninformed About Themselves
Most frustrated parents think their teen doesn't care enough. After interviewing thousands of professionals, I'd tell you the opposite is usually true — and that the real problem is one nobody talks about.
It's Not Burnout. It's the Wrong Environment.
If you're a year or two into your career and something feels off, don't assume you made the wrong choice. You might have chosen the right work in the wrong environment.
Wrong Major, Right Person: What Recruiters Actually Look For
I've hired English majors into finance roles, biology majors into tech, and history majors into some of the sharpest analytical positions I've seen. Major matters a lot less than people think — and something else matters a lot more.
The Question That Shuts Teens Down (And What Actually Works)
After 30 years of interviewing professionals, I've noticed something. The people who thrive in their careers can almost always describe how they work — not just what they do. We're asking teens the wrong question entirely.
Why Schools Are Trading Generic Career Quizzes for Real Conversations
What Counselors Wish Parents Knew (And What Parents Wish Counselors Had More Time For)
After 30 years of recruiting, I've seen what happens when career planning gets rushed. Most of the time, the counselor saw something. The parent knew something. But nobody had the right conversation at the right time.
You're Picking a Major Before You Know the Most Important Thing About Yourself
Nobody tells you this before you pick a major — but the most important information you're missing isn't about the job market. It's about yourself.
They Don't Know What They Want to Be — But That's Not Actually the Problem
After 30 years of interviewing professionals, I've noticed something: the ones who struggle most in their careers aren't the ones who picked the wrong major. They're the ones who never understood how they naturally work.
Good Grades Don’t Always Mean Clear Direction
A student can be capable, responsible, and high-achieving—and still have no idea what kind of work will fit them.
The Question Parents Should Ask Before Their Teen Chooses a Major
After 30 years of recruiting, Brian Hughes has seen one pattern again and again: people rarely struggle because they lack talent. They struggle because they never understood how they naturally operate.
What "Follow Your Passion" Gets Wrong
The Gap Between Graduation and Career Clarity: Why the Questions You Ask at 17 Matter at 35
What Career Assessments Actually Miss (A Recruiter's Perspective for Educators)